And I also find it comical that I'm fat.
How come no one here gets that?
Tell you what bro. The first impression matters most. You entered the forum as a noob and the first information you chose to share with the strangers who knew nothing about you was that you are fat, diabetic, autistic and have anger management problems.
Are you surprised that you didn't receive a warm welcome? Because I'm not.
Since it's not a dating website, it doesn't matter how much you weigh and what illnesses, if any, you suffer from. The bare minimum of social skills could come in handy though.