Names and words are as they are and have their own value.
It is like a sort of "music".Paediatricians who have studied the "sound" of different babies, in language laboratories, who come from different contries like USA, Japan, Africa, Russia, said the sound is absolutely different! And it is like the sound of their native language.
Then, the baby cried not like a baby, but like an American one or a Japanese one...
Therefore, when you call a deity-as a baby does to her mother- you are speaking with a special sound, on a special vibration.
It is like an old radio set,when you turn it to put the neddle on this chanel or this other one, with a special frequency.
I think, by my own experience, you are connecting with special vibration; as like you are able to create or to feel! By example, if you are participating in a ceremony- which is real one and subjective too in a same time, because the origin of your thought is in your brain, it is yourself.
But I can said when you see some people during ceremony, who go into a trance without control, and seem to be inhabited by the deity, you can defecate in your trousers! I've lived that during Kali's offering.
Be cautious! some peolpe are resting nowaday in asilium too!(I know some people too! unfortunately ).
BUT CAN WE SAID :"IT IS A DARK FORCE", even if many people said Kali is a dark Deity?
SURELY I CAN SAID: SHE IS NOT!
She is, that's all.
And you are.
Have a good dream.