I think what Dan was trying to say is simply that a "Satanist" doesn't change who they are for someone else. It doesn't matter if its for love, money, sex, or kids.
Also, the fact that at times you confuse being born into a religion such as Muslim with being born a Satanist. A Satanist can be born into any religion, it is the internal PHILOSOPHY that makes a person a Satanist.
Now you say, you are happier because you are no longer Muslim, but being more true to your inner self. Fine, good luck with it.
I hope you noticed/came across one of the newer female members from Singapore (?). Her husband is Muslim as well, so she might be able to provide some more insight/experience in dealing with similar issues you may have with your husband.
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