#35419 - 02/10/10 12:49 PM
Re: Seeking Approval Of Fellow Men
[Re: MelanosDivinity]
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Autodidact
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Why must anyone strive to seek approval of their fellow men? Why should I want to seek your approval?
If you desire or are required to work with another person, or a loosely-bound group of people, gaining their approval makes for a better relationship. This translates to less effort on your part. Approval is usually not *required* in this case, but it usually make things easier. Choose as you wish.
Groups that are tightly-bound usually have their approval as a prerequisite to joining the group (whatever "joining" equates to for them). If you want in, you need the approval. Again, choose as you wish.
Other than that, you don't need their approval.
No, from their point of view. Remember that almost everyone will judge you according to themselves. See above.
Yes, from your point of view. Know thyself, and either be content with who you are or change yourself. In the end, you are the only one you need to make happy.
I have taken the liberty of deciding that who I am is enough for me and if it is not enough for others then I guess they will have to just cry me a river.
Self-pity is pointless. They will not cry for you - they will ignore you.
You are your own god. Understand both sides of that statement.
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#35447 - 02/10/10 08:55 PM
Re: Seeking Approval Of Fellow Men
[Re: MelanosDivinity]
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MatthewJ1
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The smart people (in my view) are always discriminating, judging and discerning others in order to size them up; to see how they tick; to see what use they can have, and whether they can be friends, allies, innocent bystanders or potential enemies.
It would seem that inner approval means that you have a sense of self awareness and self acceptance for who you are?
To seek the approval of others or not? Let the specific situation dictate the approach.
I would agree with Dimitri that acquiring genuine self – awareness can be a difficult, but essential to your success.
You determine your strategy because you know who you are and what will work, given who you are and the target to be acquired.
I want approval as Noctuary states. I want to command the right viewer to look and to be held in place and to be convinced and be ready to agree with me and act in accordance with my will.
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#38156 - 04/28/10 03:30 AM
Re: Seeking Approval Of Fellow Men
[Re: William Wright]
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Caliga
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I judge and discriminate all the time. In fact, I find I get in trouble the most when I ignore or refute my own instincts about a given person.
As for judging myself, I evaluate continuously. Only by checking "where I am at" can I determine the most effective path to progress how I desire.
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#38187 - 04/29/10 10:03 PM
Re: Seeking Approval Of Fellow Men
[Re: Caliga]
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Lucifer Rising
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I am far less worried about acceptance than I am respect. I care not if people approve of who or what they believe me to be, as long as I hold their respect. There is at least one guy I know at work that is down right scared of me, but I ask him to do something he does it without delay. In fact, I've learned he's made keeping me happy an extremely high priority because he found out I was a Satanist and is afraid to piss me off. I don't hold a position of authority, not everyone there likes me, but almost every single one of them listens carefully when I have something to say.
However, different situations do give cause for different tactics. If I'm at a club or a party, meeting somebody for the very first time, or doing an job interview, I may focus much more on acceptance to ease the creation of whatever type of relationship I may desire from the person. Yet at work and everyday life, I have found respect far more important. Acceptance, for me at least, is almost a non-issue until I choose to win their acceptance to achieve a certain goal.
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Even if you're the ultimate evil lord of the underworld, you should always be yourself. Mickey Mouse
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#38206 - 05/01/10 10:36 AM
Re: Seeking Approval Of Fellow Men
[Re: Lucifer Rising]
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Satansfarm
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There have been several times when doing business that I could not make a deal because the client did not like my beliefs. Satanism scares people. Sometimes I will tuck my pendant under my shirt. There are other times when I don't like the situation anyway, so I don't care what the other person thinks. Also, just because someone is a pagan or a Thelemite or a Satanist doesn't mean that I am going to like them. If I don't like someone, I might not tell it to their face, but I will avoid them. Life is too short.
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