I will be the first woman giving an answer then..
Neither!
Fred would make me worth less then I am..
Ned would not be able to step into character when needed..
I for one won't settle for any less than perfect. Not perfect in the meaning, but perfect for me.. Someone who will show me that he is not afraid to love me, and never will let me doubt the love.. Someone who will be my strong man when I need it, someone who can help me in my greatests needs and be there for me without hesitation.. Someone who will laugh with me and be joyful and teasing to keep our realationship young..
Too much demand? Guess thats the reason im single