#28726 - 08/20/09 08:20 PM
Re: Fetishes
[Re: Michael A.Aquino]
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Athiarchist
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Registered: 08/18/09
Posts: 26
Loc: Northwest Oregon
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Im a submissive, and am really turned on by dominance. From the guy making the first move, to how he is in the bedroom, I NEED dominance.
Intelligence regarding certain topics... lets face it, if your a genius about building a rocket I wont care, but smarts about certain things really attracts me.
I love bondage. Especially with leather wrist cuffs and the ends of ropes in my hands so I have something to grab. Bondage Thigh and ankle cuffs also feel nice. I have a bondage collar which I wear outside of the bedroom, and I'll wear it in the bedroom if guy wants me to... but... how can he choke me if Im wearing it?
I love being pushed and pulled around by my hair and such.
Blue Eyes. Not too skinny, but def not fat. The idea of someone being able to control me gets me going; so that would probably entail a guy with muscle (since Im bigger). I always thought I liked the black hair with blue eyes look until I realized that that actually intimidates me, and 90% of the guys Ive been with have dark blonde spiked hair, so that must be the kind of hair Im attracted to. Green eyes are also sexy, but blue is my number 1.
I hate having any kind of power. Even the thought of being on top freaks me out--to much power. Plus, on a feeling scale of 1-10, being on top is at like 2, compared the 10 feeling i get of guy being in control, I dont see point of it, I'll never get off.
Spanked/whipped.
Uhm.. I would say the rape fantasy, but... only with the right guy.. Id like to call it intimate rape, lol. if there is such a thing. I have a vision. I'll keep it to myself.
Being slapped across the face.
Ive never thought Id like it, but lately Ive been wanting to be blindfolded.. seems like i keep expanding.. I never wanted to be gagged either until a couple months ago I told a guy Id try it if he wanted me to, and I actually liked it. But, being gagged is something id only do when complete trust is established.
I like being bit. But not to the point where theres blood or a ton of pain. I dont like pain--certain pain given is receieved by me as pleasure, but certain pain is just pain and im a wuss.
Ever since I can remember my fantasy has been suspension bondage--I bought a sex swing a couple weeks ago. Not like I got a boyfriend to test stuff out with anyway, so no rush in getting it installed. Also have 6 other eyebolts I wanna put in my ceiling for suspension bondage reasons.
I could go on all day. I'll leave it at that.
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#28928 - 08/26/09 10:56 PM
Re: Fetishes
[Re: SkaffenAmtiskaw]
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Morgan
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Registered: 08/29/07
Posts: 2956
Loc: New York City
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If you like something, it probably gets you off or adds to the experience.
If you dislike something, it probably affects one of your 5 senses in a negative way.
Theses different things all come down to personal perspective and choices. You can bring up Freud or etc, just sometimes weird shit can get you off.
I think Poo is nasty,and smells bad, but people love the 2 girls one cup video.
Arousal, safety, pain, fear, dominance, and submission can affect people in different ways when combined with sex. Some run screaming, some ask for more.
I like more.
Morgan
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#28953 - 08/27/09 03:18 PM
Re: Fetishes
[Re: SkaffenAmtiskaw]
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Athiarchist
stranger
Registered: 08/18/09
Posts: 26
Loc: Northwest Oregon
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I enjoy the domination by the guy in the bedroom because thats how I am; in everything. My whole life Ive felt like I needed someone to lead, not just sexually. I guess I have that follower sense compared to the leader. I just cant lead.
During my marriage (with having sex whenever I wanted), I actually wasnt having sex near as much as I wanted because he wasnt leading. I felt like I didnt know if he wanted it or not at that exact moment, so Id wait for him to start it; and he wouldnt because he was waiting on me. I became so sexually frustrated. Even after 7 years together, he was the most comfortable Ive been with anyone, so its not like I was worried about rejection or embarrassed by anything. This is when I really realized I needed the dominance, someone telling me what to do. I didnt know I liked bondage, it had never been done or tried on me, or even brought up. I didnt know anything about it, I had never really seen porn either.. I was raised Catholic, in the country, in a good home, with no cable tv. so there was nothing there influencing me.
Until one day (after my divorce) a guy pulled me around by my hair telling me what to do and held me down, and choked me, etc... I had never felt so alive from sex before.
I have no idea what my driving force is; but even as a little girl, I dreampt of having a guy to lead me in life. But the ideas in my head at the time were not sexual.
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#28958 - 08/27/09 05:43 PM
Re: Fetishes
[Re: Athiarchist]
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Azathoth68
pledge
Registered: 07/18/09
Posts: 74
Loc: Denver, CO USA
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I am twisted and evil when it comes to proper grammar and punctuation. In the amount of time that it takes to compose a post that others will read, one should endeavor (or endeavour, if you are from the UK) to take pride in presenting one's ideas within the proper guidelines of the use of the English language. So, Athiarchist, I have posted this video for you. I enjoy being a member of this site and consider it a privilege. So I hope you watch this video, learn from it, and try to polish your game a bit. If I have offended anyone, get fucked. 
Edited by Azathoth68 (08/27/09 06:07 PM)
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#29391 - 09/08/09 11:17 AM
Re: Fetishes
[Re: Morgan]
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mattie
pledge
Registered: 08/27/09
Posts: 94
Loc: Lat: 36.081, Lon: -96.179
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Greetings all,
Here's a recent development that might fit into this conversation.
I love pornography of all flavors, and more importantly I have my favorite actors and actresses in the porn industry. One such actress is a young woman from Georgia named Brooke Balentyne.
Recently my special lady and I were watching one of Ms. Balentyne's works and we decided to see if she had a site where we could send her fanmail. Much to our surprise we learned that she had dropped out of the industry and devoted her life to Jesus. You can see her myspace profile for a horrificly disturbing view of her newfound servitude.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=107661190
(Sadly, she has recently removed all of her photos and videos, they were greatness.)
Dismayed as I was by this discovery, I soon realized that the knowledge of her conversion, and unworthiness before her god, adds a deliciously sick thrill to watching Ms. Balentyne get gangbanged.
I certainly hope her past sins keep her up at night, 'cause they'll be keeping me up at night. (Insert evil laugh here)
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